My ex girlfriend wont touch my...?

heart! She broke up with me because i wasnt a challenge and i didnt like to fight. I pampered her by every means. I was emotionally and physically there for her always. Now she is saying that i screwed up her life because she chose an apartment that was out of her price range and now is in financial troubles. Why would she say i screwed her life when i was great to her? Any similar expiriences? What is she thinking?