Why is it such a big deal to make fun of girls and no one gives a **** when you make fun of guys?

You know it would be easier to understand if women didn't have higher social statues than most men. Because they are more popular and it seems like they're just socially pamper, like no one's gonna say anything to them that's mean. Then you do and it's this huge *** deal when a guy gets made fun of everyday, and women don't even like you unless you change your behavior? Are things really THIS ridiculous? Or am I seeing women through a fuzzy lens?