Who is right, Mother-n-Law and husband, or ME? Pleeeassee help me?

THERE IS NO RIGHT AND WRONG. if you want to stay married you should start talking to his mom and just get over the fact that she can be rude. better yet you said she wouldn't take care of him so just go to the aunt and tell her the story. if not i guess your going to have to decide what means more to you, going back to school or keeping your family together happily. you cant always be looking for someone to say your right because frankly it dont matter because your "HUBBY" dont agree. Your best bet is to get a therapist or ask all your other momma friends their opinion. but yes you are somewhat right.